For Richer or For Poorer?

It is wildly believed that women love money, and only interested in rich men.

It is even more widely discussed if that is in fact the reality.

Some women argue, rich men are arrogant, and the only thing they have to offer is money.

Others, see rich men as the smarter, more achieved individuals, who can provide them with status and security.

We are living in times where shallowness is the norm, and women are not at all encouraged to be lady-like. The majority of the current male-dominated society treats attractive women as sexual objects, attempting to extract all creativity out of the intuitive women.

But, if society stops generalising for a moment and looks closely in the core of this issue, perhaps it will find out that men love money just as much as women (if not more), the only difference being for the longest time, men have had substantially more of it. Money is power. Everyone is attracted to power.

If the tides turn in the next 50-60 years, and women start earning more money than men, you'll see a reversing trend where women are asking - Why men "love" money?

Comes down to the individual situation and person, after all.

Attempting to treat a strong, independent woman as an object will result in failure, and using emotional maturity as currency in endeavour to attract a "gold-digger", is absurd.

The verse, "The one who seeks finds" applies perfectly.

So, how is all this "love for money and status" applicable to The Escorts?

All escorts work for money, but so is the rest of the world.

Do escorts only see, or want to see rich man?

The immediate, surface level answer, will be - YES, but then again that answer, will be generalising some 15 000 women, in London alone.

Are escorts all the same, just because they trade under the same profession?

The greedy, shallow nature of some escorts prevails and they always looking to mingle just with the "elite", but positively, those are the girls who act and think exactly the same outside the industry.

How is an escort affected by the status of the men, who visits her?

Escorts have set fees, everyone who wants to visit them, will pay those same fees. Surely the high-class girls will be less affordable for the working class men, but wouldn't be completely out of reach.

Many people drive Mercedes, it doesn't necessarily mean they are wealthy . It is a choice to spend a certain amount of money for a desired luxury.

I can only talk for myself, but I am much more concerned about the etiquette and the intellectual and sensual connection with my client, rather then his social status. After all, I want to be able to love my every day life, while I am earning a living. Not reduce my standards to where they will affect me negatively.

I am, myself. guilty of loving money, and everything they can buy - freedom, travel, education, luxury goods, great home and location...

But as paid companion, the client's high societal position can not benefit me anymore, than a low one will hurt me.

All my clients are paying a set fee for the services I provide and rarely, from my observations, the wealthy are the generous ones.

In my world, good manners, skilled selfless lovers and a sense of humour are much more appreciated, than driving a Ferrari ( The Ferrari stays outside and it is quite uncomfortable and much too noisy for my liking) and when a man strips down, all he is left with- is his integrity and character.

Since the experiences I offer are not negotiable, its hard someone's money or status to affect me directly.

But what if an obscene amount of money is offered?....Such far fetched question!

No person in their right mind will offer a crazy amount of money for something they can get cheap elsewhere.

Then the question I would like to ask you is - What would you do for an obscene amount of money?

Everybody has a price, but not everyone's soul is for sale.

I welcome men of all circles of life, as long as they smell good and are prepared to be respectful at all times.

I know, my "Be an escort- Act like a lady " attitude is not for everyone, but then again, I am not interested in everyone!

"ChinG-ChinG" and don't forget to smile!

Nicole